Living with NonVerbal Learning Disability

By Ryan Lundy

My journey started when I came into this world by the lovely parents of Sam and Marica Lundy on August 25th, 1985.  I was born in Cooper Hospital in Camden, New Jersey. Although I was a tough baby, I struggled with many things. My parents did not know that later, their son would have a Nonverbal Learning Disability. At the age of 5, I was tested and officially diagnosed. A Nonverbal Learning Disability is a neurological condition marked by a collection of academic and sometimes, social difficulties.

Therapy & School…

Over the years I received occupational therapy and accommodations in school. I had a 504 which is a plan for students that need accommodations in regular education. This means I had many tutors, counselors, and academic advisors. School was not easy for me. I got taken advantage of a lot and bullied by kids. Many days, I would come home and cry and think about why they were not including me. I would go to games and events by myself and then later, wonder why they would not invite me to the parties or outings. I was taken advantage of by other kids, asked to give them rides and even money. Mind you, no one every offered to pay for gas (fuel) for the car rides.  was too scared to say anything because I was afraid, they would not want to hangout with me anymore. That was my way with coping with the situations.

College & Coping Strategies

I attended York College Of Pennsylvania. This is when I began to open up. I got involved in Hillel, I was the Basketball Manager and joined Best Buddies. I would go to games and parties with my roommates and friends. I still stay in touch with my college friends. It was a great experience!!!

Over the course of many years still living with a disability; I have learned many coping strategies by  going through many therapists. Some of my coping strategies includes writing things down, making lists on my phone and setting calendar reminders. I also do yoga, and deep breathing.

That is why I have compassion for the work that I do today. I never thought I would be working with individuals with disabilities, but this is my calling. Today, I work as a Special Education Teaching Assistant at a Special Education School. I am also a Community Integration Specialist as well as Special Needs Coordiator of Recreation Programmes for adults with disabilities.  I also volunteer with an organization called Best Buddies, and have coached for the Special Olympics in the past

I would like inspire and help people. People with disabilities can do anything they want to do. If you would like to connect with me, please reach me via email here.

This piece was contributed by Ryan Lundy.

Ryan is a strong advocate for people living with NonVerbal Learning Disability (NVLD). He would like to inspire and change the world. Ryan hails from New Jersey, USA. He is also the NVLD Project Social Ambassador, a Board Member of a nonprofit called William is Artistic and volunteers for EIs for Autism Foundation.